I'm a nice guy too, and the chicks I have met won't fall for me either. What can I do? I can't understand these women. Do I really have to act like a total soft place and turn my personalities up side down and see if there gonna be a difference? Well that's too bad that these women fall for the not so nice guys and later they go on complaining about marrital problems and such. I no longer care really. I might as well stay single because it's always better living without a half-hearted woman.