Look around.

Who are the girls you're interested in? Who are they spending time with? Maybe it's Not You. If you've got the style behind the label want to be the knight in shining armour? Live up to it. then you've got it down. You want to find someone who respects you for being a gentleman? Set your sights higher. A typical college girl isn't going to get it. A woman of distinction, of taste, and of experience will. And she'll appreciate your respect for her.